Monday 25 July 2011

Tips for Understanding Men and Women

Understanding (Xscape album)Image via WikipediaMen and women are completely different in many aspects. It can be very difficult for us to understand members of the opposite sex since we different so drastically. But trying to do so will definitely serve to better our relationships. Here are a few tips on understanding men and understanding women.

Women should be aware that men communicate very differently. Men are more inclined to bottle up their problems and may refuse to talk about them when you want to. They will talk about their problems when they're ready. Many women make the mistake of not giving their guys enough space so they can come to them in their own time.

When it comes to understanding men, it's important to know that their style of dealing with problems is also different. When women have a problem with something, they usually bring it up so their man can listen to them. Men on the other hand would rather solve the problem rather than discuss it.

You should already know that one of the main differences between men and women is how they deal with sex. According to stereotypes, men think about sex constantly and want it everyday. This isn't entirely false.

Men are happiest when they have sex on a regular basis. Women on the other hand, while they enjoy sex, can be content as long as they connect with their partners on another level. Sex is also less emotional for men.

When it comes to understanding women on the other hand, sex is much more emotional for them. It triggers a desire to connect with their partner. This is why they tend to want to cuddle up after having sex. Men will be happy rolling over and going to sleep.

It can be very difficult for women to deal with a lack of romance in a relationship. After the initial stages of a relationship, most men rarely have romance on their minds. They don't often think about doing small things to make their women happy like surprising them with flowers.

One of the hardest things in a man's life is understanding women. Females are very attracted to men who are willing to communicate. They appreciate someone who talks and listens to them frequently. This is a great way to connect and build a sustainable relationship.

Men also have a hard time understanding that women are very, very intuitive. They are capable of picking up on even the smallest details. Many men learn this the hard way when trying to get one over on their significant other.

As most men have figured out by now, most women take how they look very importantly. They worry about how their partner perceives them. That's why they frequently ask how a particular outfit looks on them. They're basically fishing for a compliment, so you would be well to give them one.

One of the things that drive most men crazy about understanding women is their lack of being upfront about their wants and desires. Women virtually expect men to read their minds in this regard. That's why they frequently drop hints about things they want to be surprised with. Men are advised to always pay attention to these hints if they want to make their woman happy.

It can be very difficult understanding men and women. There are many things that set us apart. You should try to experience things from your partner's perspective every so often. This will certainly go a long way towards making the relationship better.

Vic Thompson is a writer focusing on understanding men and understanding women. For more information on the author, please visit his website at www.CreateLastingLove.com.

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